We are not only discussing the actual sexual act, but also the behavior and actions of a partner before, during, and after the encounter. These seemingly small details can reveal a lot about a man’s character.

Regardless of how or when the first sexual experience takes place, it’s the man’s behavior that is most important. Psychologists believe that the way a man treats his partner during this intimate moment can reveal a lot about his character.

ATTENTIVE PARTNER

Even if the sexual experience was spontaneous, a man should still show some effort and consideration towards his partner. Setting the mood, creating a pleasant atmosphere, and showing that he values the moment as much as his partner does are key elements to a successful sexual experience.

According to psychologist and psychotherapist Anna Aronshtam, “A man who truly cares about his partner’s well-being and comfort will put in the effort to make the experience enjoyable. If a man fails to show any signs of preparation or regards the first sexual experience as just a routine event, it’s unlikely that he’ll display romantic gestures, attention to detail, or mental organization.”

IRRESPONSIBLE EGOIST

The feeling of trust between partners is essential in any sexual encounter. If a man refuses to use protection during the first sexual experience, it raises red flags about his character.

Psychologist Aronshtam explains, “Taking precautions to protect oneself is a basic act of a healthy person. Risky behavior is often associated with traits like anxiety, conflict, thrill-seeking, and impulsive actions.”

If a man tries to convince his partner to take unnecessary risks, it’s a warning sign that he may be a boundary-breaker and may try to control or manipulate her in other aspects of life. In such a situation, it’s best to either learn to assert oneself or to walk away.

INTOLERABLE CRITIC

Negative comments about a partner’s appearance, actions, or sexual skills are unacceptable. A man who engages in such behavior is prone to criticism and depreciation, and may believe that he’s offering constructive feedback, but in reality, he’s undermining his partner’s self-esteem.

Aronshtam warns, “Men often justify such behavior by claiming that they’re being sincere, but this is not an excuse for being insensitive or inconsiderate. It’s important to communicate desires and needs with tact and care. If a man fails to show basic respect and consideration, it’s unlikely that he’ll be supportive in other important matters.”

UNCERTAIN AGGRESSOR

A man who is gentle and apologetic in public but turns rough and aggressive in bed may be compensating for his insecurities and lack of confidence. Sudden rough sexual behavior, even if consensual, is a sign that the man may be holding back aggression and may struggle with social interaction.

According to the psychologist, “In such cases, rigidity and dominance become a way for a man to assert himself and feel in control. The final decision rests with the woman to determine if this type of sexual behavior is suitable or not.”

INDIFFERENT SOCIOPATH

A man’s behavior after the first sexual experience can also reveal a lot about his character. If a man quickly moves on, disregards his partner’s feelings, or is not interested in seeing her home safely, it’s a sign that he’s only interested in sexual relationships or lacks empathy.