Mike Mayer, a world-famous etiquette expert, has compiled a list of essential skills that every child should possess. These skills include:
- Using polite phrases such as “thank you” and “please” on a daily basis.
- Properly using cutlery during meals.
- Using a napkin to wipe one’s mouth after eating.
- Eating with a closed mouth.
- Never putting one’s elbows on the table.
- Not interrupting adults during conversations, except to politely say “Excuse me” if absolutely necessary. Adults should also consider the presence of a child and be mindful of their behavior.
- Refraining from making negative comments about other people’s appearance, but giving compliments when appropriate.
- Learning to give compliments to others.
- Writing thank-you notes to show gratitude to others.
- Being willing to help others in need and never mocking those who are weaker.
- Being aware of one’s own behavior and how it affects others.
- Using appropriate body language and gestures in social situations.
- Addressing adults by their appropriate titles and not using their first names unless given permission.
- Holding doors open for others when possible.
- Answering the phone politely with a proper greeting.
- Maintaining eye contact during conversations.
- Avoiding pointing fingers and staring at others.
- Covering one’s mouth when coughing or sneezing.
- Inviting someone who is alone to join in group activities.
- Respecting and showing kindness to everyone.
